Can a guy come to know if his partner is virgin or not?

Some guys may be able to if they are experienced and have been with a virgin before... the longer you wait inbetween having sex the more you go back to normal..so I've heard. If he's suspicious you could say you always use tampons but I think you shouldn't really lie about something like that. Starting a marriage with lies isn't very good. If he really loves you then he will accept it..the only thing that would be hard is if he is a virgin..